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The Good Tao Of Fear

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Continuing the lesson of “The Two Wolves” within us all, we return to the Shadow. The Shadow is that which harbors emotions of darkness and fear, crippling us from ever achieving greatness if left unchecked. With practice of self-mastery, we are able to master our emotions and further allow greatness to shine.

In practicing self-mastery, we analyze self emotions that control our every action while disallowing them from controlling daily actions. Left untamed, we remain in fear; taming the shadow, allowing fear to shine. How can we allow our fear to shine?

Allowing our fear to serve us, requires awareness of self at the deepest of levels. Through awareness we recognize all emotions, perceived good or bad, allowing them to direct us in a positive or negative fashion…either way it is by our own hands. Is it possible for fear to guide us into a brighter future?

Again, through awareness of our fears…they can show us The Way. It is through indirect routes that our attention switches towards that which we most desire. If we are afraid of something, through awareness and faith of a brighter outcome…it shall be so. During the awareness, we are cognizant of our fears but willing to move forward into levels of desire, courage or willingness.

David R. Hawkins, M.D., writes about varying levels of energy, in Power vs. Force, and how energy levels affect our decisions within the Canvas of Life. Resonate at levels of fear and that is where we remain; resonate at higher levels, such as willingness or desire, we amplify the possibility of something becoming manifest within our daily lives. Through awareness of our own fears, we autonomously raise our vibration to that of the greater forces. Lower vibrations exist as shame, fear, guilt, anger, whilst higher vibrations exist as courage, neutrality, willingness, acceptance, reason, Love. The highest of levels is that of enlightenment, which through awareness we are led.

Therefore, through study of our own fears or self-defeating ways, we are led to a brighter path…a path leading to paradise. Following The Way, we arrive as needed; following The Way, we make manifest Sunshine on a cloudy day. Indirectly our fear becomes hope and hope becomes joy…allowing our own fear to guide us onto a brighter path.

I used to be afraid of tackling plumbing or electrical work. If I allowed my fear to rule me, the work would not have been completed. However, through faith and hope, the result was discovered one step at a time. Making the first step…most difficult, the second…a bit easier…continuing the steps in faith and hope, the job was complete with far greater satisfaction of hiring another to do the work.

Stepping into the Canvas with awareness. It is through our own awareness, we are given foreknowledge of our surroundings. Through awareness, the world shall continue changing for the better, further allowing greater vision of Syncrosensational Living to become a reality. While the majority continues to follow similar patterns of the mundane, we have opportunities of changing our own reality through awareness and willingness to take steps beyond our own fears. Beyond our own fears lay Peace, Love and Joy…allow them to show The Way.

 

Feeding Both Wolves

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A day does not pass that I hear discussion of two sides to every story: silver-lining to every cloud, Brighter side to every story, positive outlook in a negative situation, etc. It is the struggle of men and women alike…a struggle of seeing life as beautiful when we have been taught to focus merely on the flaws of the paintings.

Nature is God’s Canvas and so is the everything in between. Our daily lives depict the life we live. How we see it is our own perception and how the others see it is theirs. How can one person see pure beauty, when there is killing and destruction wherever you look, while another person sees ‘Hell on Earth’ when so many miracles surround them? Merely one’s own perception or as the old Cherokee story discusses, within each and everyone of us there are two wolves…which one we feed shall live.

I contemplated this lesson of the two wolves as it parallels with the study of the Shadow. Carl Jung did extensive research on the shadow of modern man and came to a conclusion that humans are often crippled by their own darkened past. Learn to embrace the flaws and darkened past, the shadow sheds more light in areas of growth. Debbie Ford has written many books on this subject and allowed her own shadow to shine more light upon her life…leading her to a place of Peace, Love and Joy…on the most authentic plain and not just merely faking it. The Shadow Effect is her work on unearthing the negative past, while allowing new thoughts of a brighter future to emerge.

While the discussion of unearthing a darkened past comes forward, we are not suggesting you forget it. Instead…remember it. Everything that has happened up to this point in history has made us who we are: if you are a stronger person it is the result of many events, good and bad, giving you strength; if you are weakened, it has given you inquisitive thought, seeking more strength…eventually becoming the strong person you most desire. Whatever the scenario, you are not complete.

 

Our journey is never really finished: if we are enlightened, we have room for more growth and self-discovery; if we are laying naked in a pit, vulnerable as can be, we have much room for growth. Continue seeking what it is you are looking for…for the seekers shall find what they are looking for.

As long as you are green, you are growing.~six year-old

Debbie also makes reference to allowing your Shadow to come forward. She discusses anger as a strength. This was not easy for me to grasp, as I was dissolving my anger…until one day I witnessed my anger serve my highest need…

I was building a tree-house for my kids, when something went terribly wrong. I had built the base of the tree house on the ground and needed to hoist it into position, approximately fifteen feet into the air. This was not really a tree-house, but a free standing fort with a base and a house on top of the base. The tree-house was too heavy for me to erect and nobody was there to help. I could feel my helplessness setting in and a feeling of “I am never going to get this finished.” At that point, I just sat for a moment, contemplating how I could make this happen.

I sat quietly, asking the Divine to intervene and lending assistance. Not hearing a response, I attempted one more time. As the base of this fort began to fall once again…something inside me rose to the surface…it was anger. Yelling as loud as I could, as if bringing down the Thunder of my beloved…it was raised. It was at this moment I knew that I needed to feed both wolves. I was created with a black wolf and a white wolf for a reason. On this day I witnessed the Dark wolf shine…he had served me well.

My conclusion to this lesson was that we are not to starve either of the wolves within our being, but we are to feed them both. Thich Nhat Hanh, in his Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames, discusses techniques for taming the anger within. He also discusses embracing the anger, as it is a part of you. As I have learned it may be necessary to unleash this emotion, but it is knowing when it serves our higher good.

Laughing as I write this…I texted a friend about feeling joy, as time permitted me to write. I texted “I am writing about wholeness and it is giving me a feeling of joy. Instead of wholeness, the auto text changed it to ‘whole mess.’ I find it amusing, thinking about the embracing of our messes in life, allowing us to find wholeness from our whole mess. Maybe I should title it “From Whole Mess to Wholeness?!”

Feed both wolves, walk in both universes; Left foot ego, right foot spirit.~Ani Po

Stepping into the Canvas in wholeness. As we set out to paint our Canvas of Life, we begin to paint over the old. Instead allow it to bleed through the new covering, utilizing the varying contrasts of the darkened colors of our past…blending with the vibrant colors of the new. We are both our darkened past and the brightened future…whichever we choose to see is who we will be in the now. Sit quietly, embrace the wholeness…from whole mess to wholeness…declare ‘I Am Here.’